How to Be a Bad Boy (and Why Nice Guys Finish Last) – Nice Guys vs Bad Boys vs Alpha Males
How to Be a Bad Boy (and Why Nice Guys Finish Last) – Nice Guys vs Bad Boys vs Alpha Males

Gentlemen, today we’re going to tackle the
most heated debate in all guy-kind: nice guys vs bad boys. The truth is, most dudes fall somewhere in
the middle, so today we’re gonna take a look at the traits you really need to get
the girl. And because we’d never ask you to just take
our word for it, We’re also going to dive deep into why one
type of guy is clearly better than the other. Or maybe not. You’ll have to stick with us ‘till the
end for the complete story, the whole shebang, the full kit and caboodle. And after we break down the nice guys vs bad
boys conflict, we’re going to share one very specific thing no guy should ever do. So pay attention If you want to have any hopes
of attracting a suitable partner and check out these
5 scientific reasons that will finally settle the disagreement between nice guys vs bad
boys, plus the one thing nice guys AND bad boys should ALWAYS avoid. 5. Nice Guys SOMETIMES Finish Last Do nice guys finish last, or is that just a trendy, easy argument to make? Most of our male action heroes are pretty
badass, so it must be true right? Well, the truth is that it depends. Right Kay? That’s right, Beardy. Studies have shown that women will tend to
prefer strong, masculine, attractive men when sex is their primary goal. It makes sense when you think about sex as
an act of passing on one’s genes. Women will want to select the most desirable
traits in their man. However, when a woman wants to settle down
with a true partner, other attributes become more important than physical appearance,
Like income earning potential, maturity, and affinity for parenting. So in the younger, less committed, hookup
culture, nice guys are probably more likely to finish last to bad boys,
But as women get older, their priorities change. But what if a guy can be both a nice guy and
a kickass bad boy? Um, slow down there, Beardy. We’re getting ahead of ourselves. 4. Be a Nice Bad Boy One of the tricks to get girls to chase you is to try and be the whole package. But what does that mean exactly? No matter where you are on the dating spectrum
– just looking to hookup or looking for your future wife –
Being a bad boy, alpha male will only attract a woman’s initial interest. It creates a spark, but to keep her interest
you’ll need more fuel to start a fire. And the coal in your furnace needs to be a
select few nice guy characteristics, like emotional maturity, stability, and some
glimmer of hope that you’ll be a good father one day. So if you’re already a devilishly handsome
fellah that can turn heads in any crowd, You should be focusing on some more nice guy
characteristics Like getting your room clean or being fiscally
responsible (that means being good with money. Hey Beardy, what’s your credit score?) But let’s say you’ve got adulting all
figured out and you feel like your personality isn’t the thing that’s holding you back
– you just want to know how to be more attractive. The good news is there are lots of ways to
improve your attractiveness that are achievable for every guy. Just check out this video for Easy Ways to
Instantly Look More Attractive. But as everyone in Hollywood knows, the quickest
way to add a little bad boy to your persona is with a pair of badass sunglasses. Even Michael Scott is looking pretty bad these
days True, sunglasses won’t be the cure to all
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so make sure you act quick! 3. Stop Being a Nice Guy Doormat Wait, so are we saying that nice guys DO win sometimes? Yep, nice guys don’t ALWAYS finish last. But, Kay, when DO nice guys finish last? According to research published in the Journals,
Evolutionary Psychology and Letters on Evolutionary Behavioral Science, women are attracted to
characteristics of nice guys and bad boys. So the key is knowing which traits you should
develop and which traits you should overcome. And the trait that most often causes nice
guys to finish last is being a doormat. See, being a doormat – someone other people
walk over – keeps nice guys from even joining the race. I get it though… You want to be helpful because that’s just
who you are. Unfortunately, being too nice makes it easy
for other people – guys and girls – to take advantage of you. So that’s why we say “don’t be the nice
guy.” Being a guy who’s always available to help
ironically keeps women from seeing you as dateable, and it makes you much more likely
to be used. Are you wondering if you’re the nice guy
being taken advantage of? Check out this video on the Common Signs a
Girl Is Using You. Think you know who wins the nice guys vs bad
boys debate? Better stick around to the end to hear the
final score. And don’t forget that at the end of this
video, we’re going to share one of the worst things a guy can do that will always ruin
his lady luck. So stick around ‘till the end. Now let’s get back to the last 2 items on
our list. 2. Stop Being the Nice Guy So Beardy, what’s a poor fellah to do if he finds himself being taken advantage of
or just not getting anywhere by being so darn nice? What advice would you give to teach him how
to stop being the nice guy? I wouldn’t know Kay ‘cause I’m a total
bad boy. Sure you are, Beardy. Okay, why don’t I take this one? Guys, the easiest way to STOP being the nice
guy Is to stop being so dang selfless and responsible. The nice guy never makes a move without considering
the feelings of those around him and the consequences of his actions. This, of course is a noble trait, but it doesn’t
mean you have to be straight laced ALL the time. So break the mold and DO something bold. Don’t worry about being cliche; go buy that
impractical sports car. Or finally coordinate that mountain climbing
trip with your bros you’ve been dreaming about for years. We’re not saying go BE something you’re
not; We’re just saying go DO something you’re not normally expected to do. By deviating from your normal thoughtful,
calculated behavior, you’ll slowly break the pattern of nice guy behavior,
And all the pretty ladies will be forced to look at you differently. 1. Balance Out Your Alpha Status Kay, can I ask you something? Sure Beardy. What is it? So, like everybody knows, I’m a certified
bad boy, but I wanna have some of those admirable nice guy traits. Got any tips? Sure, Beardy, you’re a “bad boy”. But I just so happen to have a little bit
of advice. If you’re struggling to find a deeper romantic
connection because of your bad boy persona, It’s because women don’t associate bad
boys with the attributes they look for when seeking more meaningful, long-lasting, romantic
connections. Just as nice guys wanting to be more like
bad boys need to break free from their typical patterns of behavior,
Bad boys seeking to be more balanced need to do the same. That’s why every male profile on every dating
app shows a picture of a guy with his shirt off, doing something adventurous and flexing,
and another picture with him looking like a family man holding his niece or nephew. The balanced approach is absolutely effective
and essential for attracting the right girl. Being too much of a bad boy or too much of
a good guy is one of the main reasons girls think you’re unattractive, or at least undateable. So how do I be less of a total badass alpha
male, Kay? And don’t say I need to shave my beard. You don’t have to shave your beard, Beardy. What the heck would we even call you? Facey? Every time you do something that might be
perceived as irresponsible, like spontaneously taking off to Bali or gearing up for a Summer
of music festivals, Do something responsible to balance it out
like seeking out a financial advisor and working on a 3 year plan. ‘Cause you wanna know a really good secret,
Beardy? Women LOOOOOVE a man with a plan. The Number 1 Universal Mistake for Nice Guys
and Bad Boys So Kay, what if a guy is working diligently
on being a well-balanced suitor but just getting nowhere in the dating world? Well Beardy, he’s probably doing one of
the most unattractive things guys don’t know they do
And shooting himself in the foot despite his herculean efforts to find that perfect balance
between nice guys vs bad boys. We’ve said it before, and we’re saying
it again. Nothing will turn a woman away faster than
a guy with a wandering eye. Because a guy with a wandering eye signals
two things to a woman: A serious lack of commitment potential
And 2) a high likelihood that he will be unfaithful. It’s totally normal to notice and appreciate
other attractive human beings. But when you’re with a girl, try and give
her your undivided attention. There you have it, the long-lasting debate
between nice guys vs bad boys and who really finishes last, and the one thing that will
run off a woman as fast as yellow teeth and stinky armpits. And don’t forget to visit today’s video
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66 thoughts on “How to Be a Bad Boy (and Why Nice Guys Finish Last) – Nice Guys vs Bad Boys vs Alpha Males”

  1. Linus Adolfsson says:


  2. Coach Glen Byrne says:

    Bad boy of course!be James Bond๐Ÿ‘Š๐Ÿผ

  3. Susamma Joseph says:

    Anyone there for me

  4. tomasto tori says:

    Money is the answer

  5. ARK ANG3L says:

    I don't wanna change from being a nice guy to an asshole however I'm no pussy either I don't run behind no female I don't care how beautiful she is that's wla well known fact about me I just have way too much pride


    Smart guys finish first
    Dumb guys finish last

  7. Marrigiane says:

    Wow this channel…. Is always on point….i had ran out of ideas….but now with this tips…am back on the race๐Ÿ’—๐Ÿ’—๐Ÿ’—๐Ÿ’—๐Ÿ’—

  8. standave57 says:

    This is nothing more than a commercial service for products with a bunch of blah blah blah……

  9. NPC 01010101010101001 says:

    no money for women… they all say they are equal and indipendant… so you got it

  10. glevando says:

    These videos could be half as long. Lots to wasted filler and the same tired information shared.

  11. Rayon Browne says:

    One woman, seriously??? I will never make the mistake of having one woman again. Live life, have more fun, women and money

  12. Dave Davler says:

    Are you a redhead in real life too? ๐Ÿค”

  13. Vonjo Man says:

    Because they want someone that can guide them ..

  14. Hanz Cedric says:

    simping lessons.

  15. gratitude stories says:

    Being a alpha
    Choose your own path

  16. Atharv Pathak says:

    5) 0:49 Nice guy s finish last
    4) 1:44 be a nice bad boy
    skip 3:013:41
    3) 3:41 Stop being nice guy doormat
    2) 4:58 Stop being the nice guy
    1) 6:02 balance out your alfa status

  17. lee boss says:

    F'ing sunglasses ๐Ÿคฆ๐Ÿปโ€โ™‚๏ธ

    Become right-wing๐Ÿ˜Ž

  18. Mizer 7 says:

    After watching all those MANTELLIGENCE DATING videos i think gays are lucky

  19. kc270352 says:

    nice guys finish first, PUSSYs fnish last lmao ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ˜‚

  20. Jabarie Philip says:

    It have woman who only wants man for money that why in trinidad we called whores

  21. Sonicboom Beatbox says:

    Thatโ€™s alpha m lol

  22. O'SSร‰IN - Master Your Mind With Me says:

    The one thing to remember is that you have to put your own interest as your first priority.
    You have to become your own Mental Point of Origin.

  23. KDM Mbuyisa says:

    Great video

  24. Marcin M. says:

    Some BS + ads. Unsub.

  25. noahkb80 says:

    Never ceases to amaze me how hypergamy is thrown right in everyones face, and still denied at the same time. And women want to know where all the good men are? Lmfao. When you pass up all the good guys in your 2os so you can go get ramrodded by dozens of 'badboys' who blow on your face and leave you, and then your 30s come and your age catches up to you, THEN you want to settle. Mainly because you cant attract those bad boys anymore and they're going for the new 20 year olds. And then you expect a man, a good man, that you dissed in the past, to want to take care of you and have you bear his children? After you hoed it up all over town and probably already have a bastard child with no daddy around? You expect a man to trust you wont want to go get banged again by every hard dick running around and take his kids from him and make him pay for your life? And you run your mouth about being independent and being fat is sexy? Seriously? What kind of delusional moron to believe in this? I can tell you- just be a woman living in today's western society. And youll have this drilled into your head from birth, and be told you deserve all things and can do all things with no consequences because vagina. Well, look around. Birth rate- gone. Morality- gone. Marriage-gone. And now men- gone. But hey, atleast we got more depression, suicide, abortion, debt, fatherless homes, and soon to be the smallest group of people in our own country. Great job! Keep posting videos like this and normalize it. Its working out so great for us!๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘

  26. Oldschool Thrasher says:

    1. Be goodlooking (this doesn't equate with being a photomodel). Just enough to be somewhat appealing to the girls eyes.
    2. Be cocky in a funny/sarcastic way (both men AND women will love you for it).
    3. Calm, cool & collected, be in control of your emotions. Don't react emotional.
    4. Stand up for what you believe in, even if it means standing alone. Be brutally honest.
    5. Don't fall for the cheap advertisement on this video. Being a "bad boy" is free, not bought!
    6. That's it!

  27. Ahmed Ayachi says:


  28. Mj C says:

    #1 reason why I smashed the dislike……. Back to that in a moment!
    #2 reason…. There shameless plug for sunglasses hidden as a reason/way to attract a woman in this list.
    Annnnd back to #1 reason IT'S CHEASY A.F.!

  29. Fifty-Fifty Dusty says:

    Lol nice guys have to wait until they're older…NOBODY WANTS AN OLD HAG.

  30. josue Fuentes says:

    I'm more of an introverted calm and collective guy but girls want me because they are sexually attracted towards me, I'm not even joking lol.

  31. 11secghia says:

    Listen up world!!!
    1. Stop gaming
    2.actually get outside
    3.confidence and posture
    4.learn how to fix things
    5.learn how to run your own show funny
    7.dump the skinny jeans and manbun!
    8. exercise GOOD morals
    9.develop a creative hobby
    10. grow a spine!!
    10.5 watch mantelligence dating!

  32. Sai Govind says:

    Be John wick. *A man of focus, commitment, and sheer f**king will*.

  33. BumTumBam says:

    Today is my birthday! Can I get 40 subscribers so that I reach 100 subs?
    Also please like my latest video

  34. BLACKAAROW says:

    Only a desperate SIMP would get with a woman who wants to "settle down" when she's older and done partying in her 20's

  35. Eagle Speed says:

    This is pathetic that it comes down to this.

  36. Emre Bilge says:

    Just don't care if she'll date you or not. Who cares, you have your life and she's just one girl. All alpha and nice balance will come naturally.

  37. Emre Bilge says:

    I've liked the cartoon characters speaking in the video. It drew me more to the video.

  38. Frank Lucas says:


  39. Emanuela9 says:

    Nice guys are boring. If only I had a few more inches. I know how it REALLY is. I wouldn't want a slut anyway.

  40. anonymous255 says:

    You know this world is in peril when we HAVE to tell people not to let others use them INSTEAD OF "don't use other people"

  41. SpadesOfPaint Studios says:

    Gotta wait till Iโ€™m old then no matter how good you treat women or no matter how you try to change women are always looking for ways to destroy you or show off their dickhead they wanted instead of the man you wanted to take care of

  42. psifiusc says:

    The best tip, for both men and women, is don't be needy. The only relationships worthwhile are the ones where two complete individuals are together not because they "fill each other's holes" but because they enjoy being with each other and can support each other toward living life to the fullest. Anything less than this is toxic. Men and women don't really need each other, and we'd solve a lot of our gender wars by acknowledging that. If you get past needing the opposite sex, you are freed up to just appreciate them for the ups and downs they bring as complex human beings. Let relationships with everyone you meet develop organically and be whatever is right for each relationship. In the meantime, figure out how you can be the only person in charge of your happiness, empowerment, and ability to thrive. Be you, and forget labels and categories and who wants what.

  43. THE GAME SEEKERS says:

    I'm wearing a brand eye glasses " POLICE "
    I might switch to " ENEMY " lol

  44. THE GAME SEEKERS says:

    Fix her hair. I see little few dots.

  45. SpeedLife301 says:

    Thatโ€™s why fuck these bitchโ€™s when you get Older and get all your shit together never commit to these bitchโ€™s. Just put them in the rotation and play the same games on them that they played on you๐Ÿ˜Ž

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  47. Akshay Pallikkara says:

    Yaay I'm nice guy. come . Walk above me ๐Ÿ‘น๐Ÿ‘น

  48. Ranjith Kumar says:

    It's simple. Be a Millionaire.

  49. ECO473 says:

    For the women who love the "bad boys" so much: today's bad boy could probably result in a restraining order and/or single motherhood tomorrow. In addition, "nice" is just one more code word and one more convenient excuse for women to treat guys like trash anyway.

  50. Achnonymous 69 says:

    Please make how to deal with a convo killer..

  51. Back Bay Man52 says:

    Women mess around with bad boys and get knocked up by them, then they find a nice guy to help raise their child

  52. JOHNNY the HERO says:

    Income Earning Potential, LOL SMH, ………….potential haha

  53. gakaface says:

    Man, this channel has really jumped the shark. This was a terrible video of advice.

  54. Gordon G says:

    Indifference is the difference!
    Thatโ€™s all gentlemen!

  55. Maxence Danet-Fauvel says:

    – IM THE BAD GUY..-

  56. Kenneth Malema says:

    I could feel the setup for the advertisement for the sunglasses coming!๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

  57. Uncle Trevor says:

    Women love men with a plan… PLAN! Dutch van der Linde triggers

  58. Sam Houghton says:

    Nice guys finish last so the girl can finish first

  59. Da'marius Wingfield says:

    Lol why change the fuck who you are to please someone? Look there is mothing wrong with having humility, as its a gift some people wouldn't understand. You should be the ones that follow your passions and decide what people(including suitors) should walk among you. Date others whovhave passion.

  60. It's Dev! says:

    Having one woman is close of having none.

  61. father and son productions says:

    Sunglasses help, but those sunglasses are absolutely hideous.

  62. InfamousJuice77 says:

    So when you say "passing on ones genes" your saying they just have to get kids from the bad boy and as women get older it's the nice guy to rescue? As much as I am in complete denial about that, it's making alot of sense. I find it an absolute shame kids nowdays can't grow up with both biological parents in the same dam house anymore.

  63. Blobitโ€™s Agabag says:

    I shall try to be a bit of a bad boy

  64. Marc3lo NB says:

    Your commercial and the way you do it sucks

  65. BrOOkLyN Prince says:

    ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚ From what I heard throughout this video there seems to be 1 common denominator, "Money" gotta have a GT-R, go on trips to Mount Everest, or wherever the hell. Then to rub some salt in the wound I have act like a totally different person who is interested but pretends to not be, and wear some B.S. Sunglasses. Just my personal opinion for the ladies but don't you think that is shallow AF? Bad enough some good men have to wait until women have had they fill off Fuckboys aka Bad Boys by the time they get well into their 30's or 40's when all the goods are nice and used up kids running amuck. Not to even mention the baggage people bring into others lives from previous relationships that they most likely knew would never go anywhere they wanted it to. So not only did you waste your time and youth chasing excitement but you made you self look like a Shallow, immature, gold digging thrill seeker who sees evil in good just because some men were raised differently and know the difference between the right person and the wrong person who also wouldn't dare pretend they didn't know the difference.

  66. PositvePeerPressure says:

    Nice guys donโ€™t finish last, their not even in the race.

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