Gentlemen, this is Mantelligence. I’m Beardy
and this is Larry. Today, we’re going to show you how to psychologically make a girl
chase you. Psychologically? That’s a big word.
Oh, hi guys, I’m Kay. Oh yes, Kay. Mind power.
The mind holds the most complex mysteries of the human race and so I think this is public
service we’re doing right here. Oh wow, isn’t that a bit of over-the-top?
Well, I was just trying to explain why it’s important to know these 5 proven and scientific
tricks to get girls to chase you. These tips are already tested by psychologists
and have been proven to be effective. But hey, I thought we already have a video
about the 10 powerful tricks to get girls to chase you?
Uhm, yes we do have that in our channel already, but this time we had a little bit of help
from psychology, so this is going to be different and a bit more fun!
Plus, at the end of this video, we’re going to show you the one thing you should not do
as it rather chases girls away (away, away) Now, let’s get into it.
5. All About Standing Out Hey guys, I wanna start this one with a question.
Among these, who do you think stands out? That’s right, it’s Larry who stands out
the most. Why? Because he’s a monkey! Oh, that makes so much sense! But wait, why
again? According to research, this is called the
Von Restorff Effect. This states that when multiple objects are
present, the one that differs most is most likely to be remembered.
And I think you know what that means, don’t you? Do your very best to stand out.
The best way to do this is to know how to make jokes. If you’re able to make her laugh,
you’re already a million steps ahead of the rest. And if she laughs at even the corniest
of your jokes… Well that’s one of the most obvious hidden
signs a girl likes you. Unfortunately, being funny isn’t one of
the easiest skills to learn. However there are other ways to stand out.
By simply standing straight, wearing pressed clothes and smelling nice, you can stand out
pretty easily. Just be sure to work on your comedic timing
a little bit as well. Want to know if she likes you or not? Find
out more hidden signs a girl likes you in this video we made just for that purpose.
#4 Familiar Flair Back in college, I had this roommate who’s
the biggest foodie I know. And it isn’t surprising because his mom was one hell of
a cook. During one of his birthdays, he invited me
to come over to their house and oh, I still remember every dish I ever ate that day because
they were so dang good. I remember thinking, “he’s so lucky he
grew up eating delicious food.” Years later, I found out that Greg married
one of the best chefs in town. See, it’s possible that Greg was inclined
to be attracted to women who are good cooks because he was familiar with the presence
of one, his mother. This is called the familiarity effect, studied
by social psychologist, Robert Zajonc. Now, listen closely because this is how you make
a girl crazy for you: His studies show that people tend to develop
a preference of persons or things that are familiar to them.
Ooooh. I didn’t know that! So. How does that work for the guys, eh?
Always be around, be someone familiar. As simple as that.
By putting yourself around her all the time, you’ll increase the likelihood that she’ll
be attracted to you. Wanna know more about how to make a girl chase
you? Check out this video with 915K views already!
#3 Favor Flavor Kay, can you give me a pen?
Here. How about me some paper?
Hey, what now, Beardy? Oh, sorry don’t get mad, I’m just testing
the Benjamin Franklin effect. The Benjamin Effect states that you are more
likely to like a person for whom you do favors for. Now, pay attention because this is one
of the tricks to get a girl to chase you. Wait. What?
Don’t we just do stuff for a person we know we like?
Hmmm. In a perfect world, Kay. Yes. But, have you ever thought that you’re doing favors
for someone you don’t like as well? Hmmmm.
Are you forgetting about your boss? Hah! Beardy, you got me there!
Well, kidding aside, this effect became known as such because in Benjamin Franklin’s autobiography,
he wrote that someone who once hated him became his friend because he asked a favor from him.
So, the favor was Ben borrowed a book from this someone.
After a few days, he returned the book and thanked him.
When they saw each other at the White House, this person began talking to him very civilly,
which he had never done before. And they became good friends after that.
Oh, so it worked like a charm! Oh yes, it did, which is why this can be one
of the tricks to make a girl fall in love with you, guys. See, when you ask someone
for a favor, it’s like saying “I need your help”.
That makes it flattering for the person who will do the favor and this boosts their self-worth.
Also, when we do stuff for people, our brain thinks we must like that person.
So guys, the next time you see your girl, ask her for a favor. This is one of the weird
tricks to get a girl to chase you so see if it will work for you.
But, beware of overdoing this. You don’t wanna seem like you’re bossy and you like
asking other people to do stuff for you all the time. This is clearly not doing you any
good if you want to learn how to make a girl want you.
Did you see what happened with Kay earlier? She got a bit annoyed when I kept asking her
favor after favor. So use this trick sparingly.
Want to know more tricks on how to make a girl fall in love with you? We have another
video discussing just that. Check it out. Hey! Thanks for staying with us.
Hang tight because we have 2 more psychologically-backed tricks to help you learn how to make a girl
chase you. Plus, towards the end of this video, we will
show you the one thing you should not do because it quite simply chases the girl away.
Now, back to the good stuff. #2 Stellar Similars
Guys, have you heard of the cliche “opposites attract”?
Well yeah, in magnets maybe. But in a relationship? Hmmmm. That’s another story.
I’m not saying that people who are opposites don’t have a chance at a relationship. What
I’m saying is the probability of that happening is really low compared to when two people
are actually similar to each other. If you don’t believe me, think of this.
Why do you almost always think of questions to ask a girl to see if the two of you are
compatible? This is because of homophily, which is defined
as “love of the same” and is explained as a person’s tendency to link up with someone
who confirms, rather than tests his core beliefs. Oh c’mon, Beardy! Was I that boring?
Hey. I’m sorry but you lost me when you started defining stuff. So, explain again
how this is going to help me learn how to attract a girl?
Okay, while dating somebody different from you could be quite exciting and challenging,
let’s be realistic here. In order to get girls to chase you, you should at least share
something in common. And, it doesn’t even have to be great, big
things. Do you like the same cake?
Do you like your coffee black? Did you go to the same school?
If you answered yes, then that’s a start. Such small similarities will induce feelings
of warmth and fun which will eventually lead to attraction, well, at least according to
the concept of homophily. Just think of it like this guys: she’s more
likely to hang out with you when she finds out that you ALSO love watching Star Wars.
So go my padawan, may the force be with you. Short on questions you can ask your girl to
see how similar you are? Check out this video for more conversation starters.
#1 Pretty Plenty Alright guys, I think for this one we might
need the help of good ol’ Professor Beardsley. Hey! I heard my name…
Yes. I think you’ll be able to help us explain the abundance mindset.
Oh, the abundance mentality is the thinking that there is plenty for everybody. Or that
everything in this world is abundant. This mindset has been explained by Stephen
Covey in his most popular book: The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People.
Oh, thanks Professor! So guys, you may be wondering what this has to do with dating
and how to get a girl to like you. Well, it’s simple. If you have an abundance
mindset, you won’t think that you have to compete with anyone other than yourself.
Imagine this. Greg is in his late 20s and he currently doesn’t have a girlfriend.
Now, since Greg doesn’t have the abundance mindset, he thinks that he’s running out
of time. He chases every girl he meets and tends to
rush potential relationships. Now, do you think he’ll land a girlfriend anytime soon?
I don’t think so. In essence, people with the abundance mindset
focus more on what they have instead of focusing on what they don’t have.
And in doing so, they’re able to go through life with a more positive outlook and less
anxiety about what they might miss out on. Basically, they see the light in everything.
Not the light at the end of the tunnel. Want to know more tricks on how to get a girl
to chase you? We have a separate video for that. Check it out.
Oh wow, it’s now time for our bonus. Which means it’s time for us to tell you
the one thing that you should NEVER do because it chases girls away rather than attracts
them. Ready? Don’t try too hard. This is because,
according to experts, trying too hard can is pointless and it can actually backfire.
They call this the “white bear problem”. Try this simple experiment. Try not to think
of a white bear. Try very hard. Let me guess what happened
to you. You thought of a white bear, right? That’s it.
See, by trying too hard to do something, the opposite actually happened. For example, don’t
wear her dad’s cologne while testing out the Familiarity Effect from our 4th item.
That’s just creepy. Something like that will make her want to
avoid you instead of chase you. So, don’t try so hard. Know when to stop and she’ll
eventually chase you. If she doesn’t, then maybe it’s time to move on.
Do you know any more psychologically-backed tricks on how to get a girl to chase you?
Let us know in the comments below. Your Conclusion
Did you know that we have more tricks up our sleeves to make her chase you? Check out this
video we published which has over 2 millions views. It talks of 10 powerful tricks that
are just as good and equally as effective as the ones we have in this video.
Thanks for watching!