10 Confident Body Language Tricks EVERY Guy Should Do TODAY (Proven Techniques)
10 Confident Body Language Tricks EVERY Guy Should Do TODAY (Proven Techniques)


Gentlemen, today we’re showing 10 Body Language
tricks to instantly make you seem more confident. For most guys, confidence is the holy grail. Without it, nothing else matters. But what makes it hard,
Is that it’s hard to feel confident, it’s that it’s hard to show confidence. Well don’t worry. Because while they might take time to nail
down, there are body language tricks to immediately show a confident attitude. And because we want you to come across as
self-assured, not desperate… We’re also showing the #1 body language
mistake guys make that actually makes them look less confident and more desperate for
approval. Alright, let’s jump in. 10. Put Your Foot Down When you get down to it, one big part of confidence is the ability to be comfortable wherever
you are. And there may be no better way to show you’re
comfortable, Than by planting your feet. Instead of doing the “full-body fidget”
that you’ll catch a lot of guys doing, Planting your feet is the opposite. Where constantly moving in place makes a guy
seem like he’s anxious and can’t wait to leave,
Standing still and not re-adjusting every five seconds sends a subconscious message…,
that a guy is calm, comfortable and confident exactly where he is. 9. Hip Engage From dancing, to working out, to just walking around,
it’s pretty easy to pick out a guy who’s holding back because he’s self-conscious
and overly aware of his movement. And to make things worse. It almost seems like if you do try to relax
and loosen up, It’s even more obvious that you don’t
have a clue how to actually move confidently. It’s a vicious cycle. Well here’s how you turn it around: First,
Stop worrying about how you look to others. And second, get your hips into the mix. Seriously. If you’re like most guys, your hips are
stiff and unused. In all likelihood,
You actively try to hide your hips. But what if we told you that the key to confident
movement was all in the hips? It’s true. Not only is using your hips a cornerstone
to 99% of athleticism, But it’s also the key to proud, confident
movement that people notice. There’s no way around it:
If you want strong, relaxed movement of any kind: it all starts with the hips. 8. T- Up You learned about hips, now it’s time to talk shoulders. Here’s a typical picture of the modern guy:
Slouched over, head forward, shoulders lifted toward his ears. This is a guy who spends literally days of
every week… Cementing this unhealthy and unconfident posture. Good posture is a classic sign that a man
not only respects himself But expects respect from others. And most of the time, it’s a good way of
subconsciously getting respect. Like throwing a punch, good posture starts
in the feet. But the easiest way to fix it… …Begins with correcting your t-spine or
middle to upper back. Here’s how t-ing up works:
Start by pulling your shoulders back so they’re directly above your hips
This automatically extends your chest and lifts your eyes and chin. Next,
push your shoulders down as if you were holding weights in your hands. This adds definition to your chest and keeps
you from shrugging or looking tense. 7. The Phone Challenge Looking for a quick way to come across as a classic man? We’ve got a challenge for you:
All you’ve got to do… is keep your phone in your pocket. That’s it. Walking somewhere? Phone in pocket. Talking to someone? Put it away and keep it off the table when
you’re eating. Sound easy? With the entire world competing for our attention… It’s no wonder so many people struggle to
not look at their phone for even something like 30 seconds. But here’s the thing… Breaking your phone addiction is a great way
to appear more confident by being present in the moment. Again,
confidence is about showing you’re comfortable right where you are,
And these days, nothing says you’re comfortable… more than putting down your phone. And not only that,
Just looking at people makes you more approachable and likeable. Think about it… Just because it’s common for people to stare
at their phones during a conversation, doesn’t mean it ain’t rude. So put down your phone and watch as you start
to show more confidence and meet other fun, confident people. 6. Stylebreak Natural Have you ever been out in public and seen a group of dudes with the exact same style? It’s like they create their own characters,
but haven’t quite unlocked the special outfits yet. And what’s more,
They don’t seem to notice they all look alike. Sound like that might be you on some days? Well don’t worry, cause no matter what your
style, there’s one way you can show confidence
and distinction at the same time… Your smile. Thanks mom. But really… your smile is actually like
the king of body language tricks, And a trick that every guy can have up their
sleeves. But in order to make it work:
You’ve got to, got to, show your teeth. Worried your teeth aren’t perfect? Just look at Chadwick Boseman or Channing
Tatum. That’s Black Panther and GI Joe, if you
didn’t know i.e., two very popular, handsome, confident dudes
with less than perfect teeth. Hey, if you like our stuff, keep watching
Because we’ve got 5 more confident body language tricks and at the end of this video
We’re going to show you the number 1 thing guys do that makes them look desperate for
attention. Okay, now let’s get back to it! 5. Be The Bar Imagine you’re sitting somewhere like a bar, or a restaurant that has the really long
tables open to anyone. As more people come in and crowd the seats
next to you, you’ve got two options: Yield some space or hold the line. Now obviously at some point,
you’ll have to accommodate your neighbor if the place starts to get full. And that’s okay. But unconfident guys take that too far and
start giving up space to everyone, and then don’t have any left for themselves. Well here’s how you get around the space
problem, while exuding confidence, and not bothering anybody around you. Let’s go back to our guy sitting by himself. Instead of just politely shrinking into his
seat as he makes room for other people around him…
he simply holds own his own space. That’s it. That’s it? That’s it. By keeping his hips straight and his hands
shoulder-width apart on the table. He’s not taking anyone else’s space… But he’s also not giving up his own. Basically, he becomes a fixture. You could even say,
That he’s now as permanent as the bar itself. Nobody’s gonna try to move him, and as long
as he’s friendly They’re gonna be just fine with him taking
up space because that’s where the fun is. In other words,
If you want to have a calm, confident and friendly presence to everyone but don’t
want to give up your space, You’ve got to be the bar. 4. Eye Match We’ve said it before, making eye contact is one of the most important ways to make
a good impression and appear confident. But if it doesn’t come naturally, or if
you struggle to find the right times to look someone in the eye… Following this rule can be difficult. To simplify things, focus on matching other
people’s eye contact. Matching a person’s eye contact not only
shows that the two of you are equals, it’s one of the best things to do if you
notice someone looking at you because it’s confident,
And non-threatening. Instead of staring down,
Matching the other person’s eye contact shows that you don’t feel the need to compete… Or feel like you have to shy away from them. So by matching the person’s eye contact,
while they speak and while you speak You show confidence and gain the respect of
whoever you’re speaking to. Want to know what else you should do when
you notice a girl looking at you? Check out this video. 3. Check Your Head Alright, not exactly body language, but have you ever experienced the power of a good hair
day? In the same way confident body language can,
good hair can also send the right message. A lot of guys pay no attention to their hair,
and as a result: The lose out on loads of free confidence,
not to mention easy-to-come-by respect and attention. And no! You don’t need to have a high-maintenance
haircut to make this work for you. Because no matter your hair type,
There’s a way to rock it that not only looks effortlessly cool, it is effortlessly cool. You just gotta find it. Which, if you’ve got 30 seconds after the
shower, Shouldn’t be too hard. Just start small by making sure your hair
is in place and boom, Your chances of talking to a girl, getting
a new job, making friends and getting out of a ticket have just shot up. 2. The Defoff Stance To this day, it would seem that nobody has a clear answer on what to do with your hands. Until now. Because here’s the real trick to dealing
with your awkward hands: The Defoff Stance… Known by CEOs and charisma champs the world
over, the principle behind this technique is based
on the fact that in reality, there is actually no way to face someone directly
with your hands out, and not appear defensive, awkward or threatening. Can’t be done! That’s the reason why so many people struggle
with it. So the trick then…
…is to find a position that falls halfway between defensive and offensive… The Defoff. Here’s what you do:
Cross one arm across your body just like you would normally. But instead of crossing your other arm over,
Simply rest it on the crossed arm. Almost immediately,
you’ll feel more comfortable and 100% more confident in a way everybody will notice. 1. Intro Mob One of the key definitions of confidence, and a huge trait for alphas, is not being
intimidated by other other people. So, how do you show people that you aren’t
intimidated? Some people go the tough guy route, flexing
all over and confronting people to prove themselves. Other guys, for some reason, just won’t
introduce themselves first. Ultimately, both of these things backfire,
and here’s why: Both of these strategies are meant to improve
confidence, or at least maintain it, but in reality,
They’re both textbook defense mechanisms to cover up the anxious feelings they feel
have around other people… and most people see right through it., So
rather than pushing people away, Show your confidence by being the bigger man
and introducing yourself to new people. As promised, the number 1 body language sign
that screams overcompensation and a lack of real confidence?. Manspreading. Somehow we haven’t covered this one before. While studies have shown that spreading out
makes men appear powerful and confident, Taking too much space makes you not only look
inconsiderate, But like you’re overcompensating. Here’s what’s happening:
Dudes who go into the infamous, spread-eagle manspread… Do so because they feel entitled to that space. And entitlement, is the mark of an unconfident
man. We’ll leave it at that for now. Those are 10 Confident Body Language Tricks
Every Guy Should Do TODAY And while you’re here, why not check out
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100 thoughts on “10 Confident Body Language Tricks EVERY Guy Should Do TODAY (Proven Techniques)”

  1. Sai Govind says:

    The manspreading part was surpising. I thought it will fall under the top 10. Will need to work on my sitting style I guess.

  2. Daniel C says:

    Most of these types of videos are for metrosexual men. I'd like to see more videos on how the average hetrosexual working man should act and look around women.

  3. RockedWow says:

    I don't get the hips part

  4. dude says:

    I'm sorry for manspreading, but I got big balls so what can I do? Move them to my pockets?

  5. Lenny K. says:

    Number 9 is really bad advice.. Bring in the hips..Yeah, and how???

  6. Naked juicebox WTF says:

    Great advises, thanks alot…but the manspreading advise was kind of stupid, is this video made by a dumb ass feminist? girls wont never get it cause they lack balls jajajaja

  7. Northern Irish Conservative says:

    Hold you Space?. Dont man spread?

  8. Joshua Velasquez says:

    Had to slip in some feminist nonsense at the end didn't you?

  9. Azathoth says:

    #1 Unconfident for sure. I got a kick out of watching two guys squirm on two separate occasions on public trans when I told them. "Don't be inconsiderate, your balls aren't that big".

  10. Mr. Dude says:

    0:09 any Metallica fans?

  11. subramanya g subbu says:

    Great content again.. Mantelligence rocks always..I suggest you guys to make a video on alpha vs sigma..!!

  12. Ronald Sprowal says:

    Thanks like I always say I really really really really really really really need these videos

  13. Dom Castagna says:

    You are so wrong about man spreading it's never been something in ever done on purpose it just comfortable and I recall when I was younger adults telling young girls to close their legs almost as if it's something everyone just does naturally, the only people that complain about "man spreading" is someone without a cock and balls between their legs, and that is sexist against men

  14. Safety Man says:

    Buzzfeed? Is this you?

  15. Torblerone says:

    I'd rather not squash my balls, thank you very much.

  16. billytheweasel says:

    Money, fame, power, humor, good looks, 10" personality.
    Good hair is metrosexual. The crossed arm pose is 100% geh.
    Move along now.

  17. ANSHUL RATHORE says:

    Nice Video Mam 😍🤗😘

  18. Shubham Chavan says:

    thanks for series of videos, these are really helpful to us.

  19. WatcherOfShadows says:

    Lost me at the "manspreading" and "yo my dude" approach to dissent. A pity.

  20. THVG 02 says:

    I guess the hips don't lie😂

  21. 漂丿男子漢 says:

    11. Walk and swing your hands like Conor McGregor

  22. Muratveli says:

    I'm bald, what do I do!?

  23. W - Share says:

    This was super interesting

  24. Drachen Fluge says:

    Clearly women are doing these videos, some of your tips are good, but most of them are just ideas of what women want from men, instead of what men really need. The most obvious example was the "man spreading" part, here are some news: we men like to spread because we need space for our balls, and it is comfortable too, if you don't like it too bad

  25. Xperience Quess Zion says:

    Lmaomanspreading isn't that deep .. We have to do it for comfort .. Y'all dont have testicles y'all dont understand how uncomfortable they can get from time to time .. Its like women being judge for not wearing bras when y'all do that for comfort and to lessen y'all chances of getting breast cancer

  26. Beyond Uchiha says:

    I don't get the number two. Is it to stay like this? https://imgur.com/a/8n0jQdE

  27. Sagar Ghimire says:

    I am going bald.. will the good hair day still work with me? if i give 30s in the shower

  28. Shawn Leroux says:

    What if you're bald

  29. Lenon OfficialTv says:

    Nice

  30. Nathan Toth says:

    Thank you for sharing video. Are these researches backed by Psychologists type videos? I'm trying to better my confidence.

  31. Brian T says:

    I tried showing my teeth while smiling to a girl one time but it was her rottweiler that smiled back and showed its teeth instead…..oh well.

  32. Dudley2346 says:

    The be the bar thing is true, I always go out alone, and at some point I have to yield my place at the bar and head for the nearest wall, there's just nothing I can do about it, and the ones that take away my place are always women, one even hit me with her elbow once, I'm a gentleman so I went away without saying anything.

  33. Tim Wilson says:

    They're not saying don't manspread, just do it enough to wear your balls are comfortable and not any more. You don't need to be doing splits

  34. Abdul wahab says:

    Why this channel had to be so perfect 😂😅

  35. joe shmoe says:

    I am pissed that you guys said things about man spreading, seriously WHY?! We don't feel entitled to that space we NEED that space we're not crushing our balls, in terms of how women can relate it would be like someone poking your vagina in a supremely uncomfortable/painful way every time you didn't spread your legs thats probably about as far as women can understand the pain of not "man spreading" so next time save your bs for a different audience k…

  36. Parabalani says:

    Everyone has balls of the same size, manspreading has nothing to do with that. Guys just want to show that they are alphas or something which looks stupid.

  37. nightfox says:

    When a woman talks about what guys do everything seems defensive intimidating or awkward

  38. Skarpharald Mankell says:

    Such a sexist video. Goddamnit, these feminist agendas woman-spreading everywhere. "It's due to a sense of entitlement…". WTF. IT'S FOR THE BALLS. What a sexist video.

  39. Ben 123 says:

    10. Put your foot down
    9. Hip Engage
    8. didn’t watched until here sorry

  40. Duglife says:

    Well the person squawking in this video obviously doesn't have testicles to carry around. Men don't spread their legs because they are "underconfident," we do it cause we have some extra luggage down there and it is a very sensitive spot. Don't be so pigheaded. I just wonder why a woman does the voice overs for videos on a self improvement channel for men…

  41. ZT says:

    Number 7. Bring it on. I accept your challenge!

  42. Trapper The Money says:

    Do not Do, I repeat do not ever do the last shit she said in the video. Because this will definitely ruin every thing you worked on and make you look femin. Simply hold your hands behind your back, or hold your wrist but never in your pockets or crossed. Having your arms crossed means being in defensive mode.

  43. MD Rice says:

    Crossing your arms in any manner creates a negative Stance and for this reason I'm unsubscribing and I'm OUT… any positive thinking books or any Dress for Success books will tell you crossing your arms is a No-No besides that's how they put them when they bury you…

  44. Karim Mouneimneh says:

    The last one is shit

  45. lonewolf031 says:

    you had me until the "manspreading" bs.. Men have balls and in order not to squish them they need to be unconstricted. its like telling a woman that her breasts are using too much space and she needs to bind them to make other people feel better.

  46. Alvin Lwanga says:

    Still struggling with the shoulders and neck

  47. Junior Anis says:

    Manspreading……………….wtf

  48. MgtowArena says:

    Ahhh, yes "manspreading"… I dont adhere to terms that were materialized 8 months ago.

  49. ram bhattarai says:

    wtf we are no channing tatum

  50. Tortuga Almuerzo says:

    Ok, I don't give credit to this crap

  51. Darnell Manoto says:

    GUYS. Theyre not saying that you shouldnt manspread, just in general, most girls dont like it. Thats all. Its just one of those things. We're welcome to do it. I do it. Its really one of those things. Dont take it too seriously. Shes just saying dont do it as some women would see it as a sign of arrogance (i dont see it that way) but if we want to increase our chances, well why not?

  52. Philosophy BA says:

    I can often talk my way out of tickets and I'm not a lawyer. I dont manspread but i do like woman-spreading. :X

  53. Philosophy BA says:

    I'm about to put on my "philosopher" t-shirt and go to the bar.

  54. Ferenc Benedek says:

    Lol what an idiotism that manspreading thing in the video.You cannot generalise everybody is like the same who wants to be comfortable.

  55. Ferenc Benedek says:

    Basicly the logic is faulty.You want big space because you feel comfortable that way.I mean myself.Who wants to sit on the railway with little space.Not me.

  56. the gradient says:

    Whamens

  57. D K-sky says:

    8:52
    Yeah, nice try 😉

  58. Tadd Hendrickson says:

    It's all in the hips.
    It's all in the hips.
    It's all in the hips.

  59. Sid Cynic says:

    Ye ladies, we spread our legs because we want to dominate space!… My personal space is as far as I can swing my arms… My nuts personal space is as far as i can open my legs… Don't like it… find another place to sit. Think the girls should go back to wearing corsets as a reminder of what its like to have the bejesus pressed out of your dangly bits.

  60. atrain 34007 says:

    Don't listen to a woman for advice on women.

  61. The Difference says:

    Feminism alert.

  62. Sharath Manivannan says:

    Ohhhhhhh manspreading …but what about my balls

  63. str8 '88 says:

    @ 2:48 when she said holding those weights builds up the chest that demonstrator smiled then lol

  64. Pinoy keyboard warrior says:

    #3
    Shame, you forgot about bald guys… how bout them?

  65. Pinoy keyboard warrior says:

    Manspreading is normal if your balls are growing up lately…

  66. Armando Torres says:

    I have very high confidence all good tricks apply 👍😎😶👏

  67. A-Aron Ander-Son says:

    You had my attention till the feminist manspreading crap. How about I don't worry about the biological needs of a woman when she wears a braw and you don't worry about my biological needs when there is room to spread my legs?
    If women get their panties in a twist over such minor BS, than I already know who not to get to know.

    How about the "womanspreading" with all those bags and stuff huh?

    You lost a potential sub over that bull.

  68. Travis Tubbs says:

    Great video tell the man spreading crap lol are there ladies out there that really get upset by that please let me know lol you messed up
    With that part lol

  69. Rasti Al says:

    I was 100% along with everything, till you mentioned man-spreading… I mean really ? Couldn't you used like " exaggerated spreading" or something else ? I mean we do have things in the way that litteraly prevent us from having our legs closed. It's pretty unfomfortable

  70. Toni Ranta says:

    Manspreading? Well grow balls and crush them with your legs, then tell how it feels, women

  71. Firemarioflower says:

    Damnit, and just recently I tried spreading my legs a lil bit more so it would come across more confident. Really confused now!
    I"M SO DONE WITH THIS! UGH! Forget it! Love me for who i am or don't. I don't care anymore. Stupid mind games.

  72. ZFlyingVLover says:

    manspreading is lack of confidence?!
    No. manspreading when nobody is on the bus or train is just comfortable. Now if you STILL feel you have to manspread when the seat is filling up THEN that's being an ahole. But by the same token don't let another man manspread on you cause then you're a pussy.

  73. ConFuzioN says:

    I just watch these videos to kill time

  74. Leman Russ says:

    Tells men spreading and literally spreading arms and taking up space is cool.
    Then proceeds o talk about man spreading.
    Wut?

  75. Manuel Pesqueira says:

    Lost me at the "manspreading" junk. Some people have never had to adjust their legs to unstick a certain bodypart from the inner thigh without directly grabbing with your hands in public. Sometimes the marbles are like those damn sticky hand strings lol It's also more comfortable and most of us do it within reason.

  76. Andreas Gonatas says:

    Lmao that manspreading story is both hilarious and stupid. It's oke that women dont understand why men do that but do not make up weird stories that makes no sense. The main reason why men spread their legs it's because their manhood hurts when you sit down with a jeans that is too tight, it's a way to compensate the lack of space down there. That is why i do not understand why ANY men would ever wear skinny jeans. Dont these guys have a dick in their pants? Girls: , Imagine a bra that is either too tight or uncomfortable, women have the advantage because they can Always remove their bra, but men cannot remove their pants.

  77. LEGENDS says:

    Just go to public school and get some social skills

  78. kash law says:

    be the bar yoda would be proud of us men

  79. Aaron Butler says:

    Any video that uses "manspreading" unironically is not to be taken seriously. If you want to look like and be a confident man, don't take advice from a feminist.

  80. M C says:

    I have balls american woman and they need space.

  81. tcr333 says:

    Manspreading done right shows power, control and women DO LIKE IT!

  82. I quit Youtube says:

    and be white.

  83. I quit Youtube says:

    don't forget be Caucasian.

  84. Hartanto Wong says:

    I don’t get the meaning in point 2?

  85. okfrostman says:

    The phone thing seem more female than male . In less he's married . I wait but at a point I walk way .

  86. d c says:

    I don't agree at all with the "man spreading" and lack of confidence. I sit like that a lot! almost all the time and its because of my balls… literally. often times things get bunched up down there. if a man opens up his legs from time to time while sitting for an extended period it can immediately relieve discomfort around the groin area. but why would a woman know that?

  87. Larz1961 says:

    Actually you should stand straight but ever so slightly lean back with your chin up . It shows confidence but leaning back gives you an approachable and non threatening look.The manspreding thing is it hurts most men to crush their balls

  88. Ryan Mapes says:

    Manspreading ? I agree! It’s almost as worst as womenspreading

  89. TheLeastPoliticallyCorrect says:

    Manspreading wtf? There are a billion reasons we sit like that and it ain't "compensation"

  90. tom de haan says:

    I was man spreading while watching this bulshit video…

  91. Gentleman Josh says:

    It's been tough for me to show confidence cos girls don't seem to like me

  92. Mike Miller says:

    Step one – walk backwards

  93. Rob James says:

    Anyone that says that "man-spreading" is about "feeling entitled to that space" has never sat on their own testicles.

    I swear, feminists "man-SPLAIN" (incorrectly, I might add) more than men ever could…

  94. adam hurst says:

    I see why you had the manspread part at the end, made me take my like back. I’ll never manspread if it takes up more space. Men manspread because it’s comfortable, not because we’re compensating or the patriarch or whatever feminist non sense says.

  95. Bill Fallon says:

    Forget 7. She's too busy looking at her phone to notice men even exist.

  96. HowToTV173 says:

    Is she not gonna even acknowledging that men have balls.

  97. Snafu The Brave says:

    There's no such thing as manspreading, either you're taking good amount of space to allow for your dick and balls… or you're just being an asshole by spreading out your legs as humanly possible.

  98. Felix Rodriguez says:

    This is Great,, I'm glad I subscribed

  99. J Barker says:

    The defoff nonesense makes no sense. In one video you say to never cross your arms. Now you say to cross your arms in the defoff stance… Man thats total garbage man. Horrible advice for looking aproachable. Also you say there is NO WAY to face someone directly with your hands out in front of you and not appear defensive, awkward or threatening?… Man you guys really flopped this one. You have no idea what you`re talking about.

  100. Your Own Channel says:

    Girl,you've made more difficult for us to be confident.

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